CLIENT SUCCESS
David,
I just wanted to tell you how grateful I am to you and your program. I know we didn’t get the result we wanted with my wife at the time. However you never let me waiver in my commitment to being an amazing husband and being an even better version of myself.
One of the last things you told me was that someone would have to be sick or crazy to not be with an amazing man like me. And one day there would be someone that would come into my life and see how amazing I was and how amazing I would be as their husband. I wanted to believe you, parts of me did. However I still fully believe.
Something else I learned was to pray, or talk out loud into the universe. After it was official that my wife would not stay I started to speak out what I would want in someone in the future.
I guess what I am trying to say is that the place I am at now is a huge thanks to your guidance. The skills and my integrity have become a core part of who I am as a man and who I will be as a husband.
I have met a woman that thinks I am just the most amazing man and doesn’t understand why I am not fully loved by a woman. She has almost word for word said some of things that you have taught me and shown me. She has even said she would
be crazy to ever leave a man like me. What is just as amazing as the relationship I have with her is the power or speaking or the power of prayer as you call it. This woman is the exact things that I wanted or said I wanted.
I am so grateful for you as a mentor, a coach, a support system and I am thankful you have been there in one of my darkest times and that because of you I am able to be in this place and have the love of a woman who sees me as the most
amazing man and wants to have that future. The thing is my integrity is so aligned that I have no fear of being a cat because of the tools and work you guided me thru. I am so grateful to have found my moon.
-Bradly
Richie
Day 1 within hours…December 10, 2020
I know I have only been a part of the group since this morning but I have to share my small victory. Last night something resonated with me from David's video's and I started trying to supress the cat, I watched/listened to it about 10 or 15 times . After the Q&A today, I practiced no texts, only phone calls and I tried to make the best of them. When she got home she was short with me like normal but when she got in bed she actually made small talk with me about random stuff with no real purpose. We talked until she fell asleep like when we first got married.
We haven't done that in a years, and I could even see a shimmer in her eyes. I am sure she still wants to leave, but it was nice to make small talk with my wife like we used to. I know I haven't got this cat licked; not by a long shot but I am amazed how suppressing it made such a huge difference tonight. I know this small victory was a little early and very small but I had to share.
Day 2 December 12, 2020
Wow, guys so yesterday we went to the counselor and things went decent, our counselor is pretty good and really dedicated to seeing people succeed thank God. Anyway now that I have been owning this cat, atleast around her, I have seen a few new things.
So last night she wasn't to talkative but the finances got brought up and she told me she has been considering staying longer, and not leaving the first of the year. I will definitely take that V.
So I woke up this morning to take my little brother hunting, it really helped me mentally to just relax and take nature in, but on my way out she actually gave me a meaningful hug goodbye. Before hand they have been meaningless and empty. I kinda thought it was a fluke, but anyway off hunting we went. Got done hunting with no success but a lot of peace watching the sun rise and went and grabbed breakfast for Nicole, myself, my little brother, and daughter. Got home and gave her her breakfast and she gave me another solid meaningful hug, and the eye contact and conversation was great over breakfast. A few more V's I will gladly take.
She also was discussing the house last night and future renovation and improvement as if she were staying. Our house has been another downfall of mine and I have owned it, but it really seemed like one more V that rather than slamming me on incomplete projects she was helping me prioritize what was most important for a more suitable home for our family.
I should also state that last night she told me she has been considering staying but can't get over the fact she feels as if she will get burned again. I take this as a V but I may be wrong. If she has been thinking about it in my eyes the option is at least on the table.
I know I have a long way to go but every little V is making me feel so much more confident and happy. We are going to see Christmas lights tonight so time to get to work on the house some more hit the videos again, hope all yall have a great day.
