“I don't normally leave testimonials, but felt moved to for this week that I've completed, so here goes:
When I talked with David last week, I was a rambling mess; still bewildered, shocked and angry that my wife had left and was seeing other people…
I was honestly skeptical about his suggestion that I invest a week of effort to “remove the mud from my windshield”. I thought he was trying to get my money and I was hesitant, but my heart felt that I needed something like this and decided to give it a go.
This past week has given me so much clarity. The lesson plan David put me on has changed me a lot in just 7 days.
Understanding why my wife is acting the way she is and realizing how my Inner Cat shows up to ruin my marriage have been massive breakthroughs.
I’ve realized how so many of my actions and lack of actions have been perceived by my wife, which has led to the hurt on her side. I’ve caught myself doing inner-cat things and I’m stopping them because I don’t want to feed the part that caused the marriage cancer to begin with.
Until this week I didn’t have a proper handle on that, but now I have clarity of what I’ve done and that awareness is huge to me that I can avoid those traps and work on improving myself for the sake of the marriage.
When I get “advice” from other people that feed my inner cat I know when to discard it as bad advice and not follow it. I like the man I am becoming; it’s already helped me become a better parent this week.
I’ve overcome my fear this week; knowing that even if we end in divorce it doesn’t mean it’s completely over is huge, most importantly, knowing what emotions and attitudes make me look unattractive… and being able to relate to that totally from my marriage is another game changer for me.
The biggest thing that surprised me was how engaged David was through the whole process. I thought I was going to be given access to a website and that was it - I’ve paid for a library, nothing more. I got daily check-ins from David who tailored my learning to specifically what I needed this week. I was able to talk back and forth to clarify any questions I had with him and he was responsive. Writing my notes and findings was great to document for myself to know what I was thinking and feeling, but David was reviewing and giving feedback and then altering my training based on it. That 1:1 attention was very comforting when I was in a delicate place; it’s very reassuring to know that you’re being helped along.”
Mike Henshaw
Orlando, Florida
David,
I just wanted to tell you how grateful I am to you and your program. I know we didn’t get the result we wanted with my wife at the time. However you never let me waiver in my commitment to being an amazing husband and being an even better version of myself.
  One of the last things you told me was that someone would have to be sick or crazy to not be with an amazing man like me. And one day there would be someone that would come into my life and see how amazing I was and how amazing I would be as their husband. I wanted to believe you, parts of me did. However I still fully believe.Â
Something else I learned was to pray, or talk out loud into the universe. After it was official that my wife would not stay I started to speak out what I would want in someone in the future.
I guess what I am trying to say is that the place I am at now is a huge thanks to your guidance. The skills and my integrity have become a core part of who I am as a man and who I will be as a husband.Â
I have met a woman that thinks I am just the most amazing man and doesn’t understand why I am not fully loved by a woman. She has almost word for word said some of things that you have taught me and shown me. She has even said she would
be crazy to ever leave a man like me. What is just as amazing as the relationship I have with her is the power or speaking or the power of prayer as you call it. This woman is the exact things that I wanted or said I wanted.Â
I am so grateful for you as a mentor, a coach, a support system and I am thankful you have been there in one of my darkest times and that because of you I am able to be in this place and have the love of a woman who sees me as the mostÂ
amazing man and wants to have that future. The thing is my integrity is so aligned that I have no fear of being a cat because of the tools and work you guided me thru. I am so grateful to have found my moon.
-Bradly
My marriage of 22 years wasn't over - it was dead.
For the last 10 years it went downhill day by day. My wife had walls up, and I was so bitter and angry I wanted to die.
Our sex life was non-existent for years. Affection wasn't there. I didn't care about how she felt. I didn't care about what she said. I was so miserable that every day I woke up looking in the mirror telling myself how much I hated me.
Then I ran across David's webinar, and the resources in his FaceBook Group and said I WANT WHAT HE'S GOT!
No joke, I said I don't care what I have to do, I don't care what it costs. I'm ready for this hell to be over.
So I reached out to David and I allowed myself to open up to a whole new way of approaching my marriage.
Learning how to identify my Inner Cat and deal with it was life changing. I'm living proof a man can feel like a MAN again, and his wife can transform right before his very eyes.
I don't see her the same as I used to, and there is real healing happening in my marriage that goes FAR beyond the superficial symptoms
David warns about. . I encourage you - if the webinar speaks to your situation, trust your heart and take action. This won't just help your marriage. It will help you become a better father and man in every way.
TJ Scott
Louisville, Kentucky
